“Sometimes when people decide to leave you for good, you have to let them go. No matter how much you don’t want them to, there are some things that are far beyond our control. Even if you have the strength to fight for them, you have to accept the cold harsh truth, the people you can’t live without, can live without you.”
It’s really hard to face a challenge when courage is not there. Sometimes, I pity myself and want to cry with all those hardships that I’m experiencing. When I can’t sleep at night, it’s my habit to think and imagine myself of what I am in the future. How I wished I could be like Aladdin or Jasmine, soaring high in the sky on a magic carpet ride, seeing the whole view of my success.
Everyday, we meet different challenges. Our attitude highly depends upon the success we gain. “Enthusiasm makes the difference,” is a saying we must put in our minds. We can attain our dreams if we have enthusiasm for work. Living in a world without a purpose is like hitting our dreams without an arrow; like sweet candy at night that melts you’ve awaken. You move on through the day without direction. Adversity is the ultimate reason when success is not attained, but let our soul fly like the wings of an eagle and meet every obstacle with courage and determination.
When problems occur, we keep our heads up high and focus on the immediate solutions. “Let us soar on the wings of vision but keep on the rocks of reality.” Sometimes we dream and imagine ourselves on high position but we should never stop to consider the rough paths we have to cross. Relax but never stop climbing the stairs towards a victorious life.
Each of us has our own ambitions and goals in life. And as rational beings, we are bombarded daily with problems and all of those “molding effect.” For us to be successful in our ambitions and goals in life, let’s not forget to put God first in everything we do, because with God, nothing is impossible. Determination is another ingredient for success. We must be persevering and strong in everything that we encounter. We should also acquire the spirit of independence and competence for a happier life.
Whether our goals are big and small, we have many things to consider in achieving them. Always put in mind to give and do our best to the fullest of our abilities, to strive hard and be ready to rise up especially when trials and obstacles are pushing down. We must set goals and ambitions in an organized manner—a step by step process—slowly but surely. So let’s choose to see life as perfect despite its imperfections. Live life to the fullest—fullest in the sense that what we are doing is suitable in man’s and God’s eyes.
I wanted her too badly and all I can do now is just watch her profile as a visitor, ask our friends if she’s okay, if she’s with someone else, if she still talks about me, if she still thinks about me. I keep reliving our last time together thinking maybe I could have done something different, things may have ended differently. But all is in vain, I can’t have her now, I am nothing to her now.
When something’s over, it’s over. It can never start again. When it’s broken you can never put back the pieces. Life is not the way you want it to be. When you that someone’s hurting you so much, just stop. We know that it hurts a lot, but you must learn to let go things. Don’t push yourself too hard. Because we all know, that in every ending, there’s such a thing that we call the beginning.
We all know that tumblr is a blogging site. Well it’s not just a blogging site, it is the power of anonymity. Nobody wants to be judged or ridiculed by how they feel or think, we hide behind this visage of anonymity to feel safe that whatever we say or do, our true selves are unharmed. We are not here to judge and hurt people about their feelings in these world from now and then, we are here to express in a profound way. Let the ‘you’ come out in your true colors. Don’t be afraid. Share and express all the things you want, all the things you want to do, all the feelings you want to share, and all the things that makes you happy and contented. Express what’s your taste! Do you like foods? fashion? Cartoons? Everything? So go, share it to yourself, to everyone. Tell yourself about how you feel. Are you happy today? Sad? Inspired? Angry? Anything you feel about a certain person, a certain thing throughout the circumstances of your life. So go, let it out. No one hates you if you’re being you! In this site, this blogging site, tumblr. This is where you start being the person you’ve never showed before.
It’s not as if I don’t have anything to read; there’s a tower of perfectly good unread books next to my bed, not to mention the shelves of books in the living room I've been meaning to reread it all over and over again. I find myself, maddeningly, hungry, and excited for the next one, as yet unknown. I no longer try to analyze this hunger and excitement; I capitulated long ago to the book lust that’s afflicted me most of my life. My adrenaline started pumping anytime I was within a hundred yards of a bookshop. I loved books nearly as much as I loved clothes. And that’s saying something. The feel of them and the smell of them. The smell of a newly-bought book, It makes me want to read hundreds of books, even thousands.
A bookshop was like like an Aladdin’s Cave for me. Entire worlds and lives can be found just behind that glossy cover. All you had to do was look. I read to fuel the madness, I read to forget the sadness; it is a pity we are and will forever be a minority in this fragile world. But we don’t have to worry all about that! Let go! Get lost in books. Drop everything and read.
Reading is not just a hobby, we control it and we adapt it to our needs and rhythms. We indulge our subjective associative impulse and reactions. Here, we feel all the authors wants to feel us about all if the books and writings they produced and shared it to all of us deep and emotional readers. We readers, don’t just read words, we dream our lives in our own vicinity, we dream our lives for the better us. Writers and authors expressed their feelings in a piece of paper. They write to express; not to impress. It taught good moral values on how we interact and communicate to other people. And it taught us to live well, live to the fullest and to break free and do something new in life.
“There’s nothing wrong with reading a book you love over and over. When you do, the words get inside you, become a part of you, in a way that words in a book you’ve read only once can’t."
This guy unveils such dulcet bearing towards me. He has ways of making my heart move in quick, irregular motions. Yet the barricade around me is my admonition of all the memories. And so, my first defense mechanism sets in and that is none other than to flee. But I guess I haven't flown away that far since he still continues to express such pleasant sentiments filling my heart with so much glee. Hence, I decided to left my door ajar. If the door is open just an inch or so, the air will be migrating swiftly out of the area that’s available. But, the measure of capacity of air within the house is so large that it would take much longer to dispense all of the air through such a tiny vent. Fabian policy. safety. However, I’m trapped in a mix up mystification on how to respond to it. Cause i really can’t tell if this affection is more than friends or merely he’s natural aura.
“I know that the hard work you
Have done for your future and present goals
That’s very important in your life.
All i want you is to be courageous
Be calm and
be self equipped with facts and figures
to conquer this hard battle.
Trusting God won’t make the mountain smaller
but it will make climbing easier.
Hope you will be able to climb
all your mountains always."
Many of us these days, have witnessed the feeling of friendzoned. You felt it, they felt it and we all felt it. Some people didn’t even knew that they will be going to that stage, the friendzoned stage. So in my opinion, here is some advice. The reason why friendzone was made in the first place because:
1. They don’t have any sexual or intimate feelings towards you but they like your company, they like the benefits of being with you, or you give them advice about everything.
2. They have known you for so long, that you might have missed a very crucial moment like, you did not kiss her when you had the chance, you did not take the initiative to hold her hand or make love with her when the opportunity presented itself, once you make the mistake of respecting her too much, that door closes and a window to friendzone land opens.
Here are some ways to prevent being friendzoned, this comes at a opportune time since you have your Acquaintance coming up, and other school activities that you can use to your advantage.
1. When you get the chance, take the risk, kiss her, hold her hand, take her to bed, sometimes it takes a little bit of persuasion and aggression to show her you really want her. Warning: When she says no, its a no. Rape is always punishable by law.
2. Don’t offer her advice, don’t be her “Guyser”, her Guy Adviser when she has a problem with another guy or whatnot.
3. Be mysterious, don’t be to obvious, make her miss you, make her need you. Law of Supply and Demand. Show your worth then increase your value by being a commodity and not a surplus. It pays to disagree with her or say no to her wants.
4. Don’t use confessions pages as an outlet. Tell her and see where the cards fall.
Speaking out of experience. I have been friendzoned before, A LOT. You still have the chance, so take it. For me, its a different situation now. So good luck and Godspeed gentlemen, may the best man win!
He was altruistic. Friendly. And sweet. He showed me affection i longed to feel. But fear always wins. it blinds me most of the time. And so I’ve gone astray. But now my heart’s aching cause he receded. Left without a trace.
If he spends time with you, waits for your last text, waits for your call, drops everything to go to you, and listens to every little details and remembers them by heart then he loves you, hands down. Don’t over think it, he loves you plain and simple. If none of those are present.
Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be (possibly your roommate,neighbor, coworker, long-lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger) but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.
And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart.
Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.
The people you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls you experience help to create who you become. Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
Make every day count! Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before,and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don’t believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you. You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.
Everyone has private secrets and personal facts about themselves that aren’t easily shared with others. We all want to protect ourselves against criticism and teasing, so embarrassing moments are never really the first thing that we share with others. But the fact is, pretty much every single person has one of those deep, dark secrets that lingers around and is never revealed.
I wanna be true, to prove my love to you.
Baby don’t you know my love is true. I love you when it’s only you that makes my heart beats fast anew.
Hey baby, I can be, I can be anything you want me to be. Because it’s me and you in this crazy fantasy;
Don’t you even notice that I’m wanting you to see, my love for you is real.