Many of us these days, have witnessed the feeling of friendzoned. You felt it, they felt it and we all felt it. Some people didn’t even knew that they will be going to that stage, the friendzoned stage. So in my opinion, here is some advice. The reason why friendzone was made in the first place because:

1. They don’t have any sexual or intimate feelings towards you but they like your company, they like the benefits of being with you, or you give them advice about everything.

2. They have known you for so long, that you might have missed a very crucial moment like, you did not kiss her when you had the chance, you did not take the initiative to hold her hand or make love with her when the opportunity presented itself, once you make the mistake of respecting her too much, that door closes and a window to friendzone land opens.

Here are some ways to prevent being friendzoned, this comes at a opportune time since you have your Acquaintance coming up, and other school activities that you can use to your advantage.

1. When you get the chance, take the risk, kiss her, hold her hand, take her to bed, sometimes it takes a little bit of persuasion and aggression to show her you really want her. Warning: When she says no, its a no. Rape is always punishable by law.

2. Don’t offer her advice, don’t be her “Guyser”, her Guy Adviser when she has a problem with another guy or whatnot. 

3. Be mysterious, don’t be to obvious, make her miss you, make her need you. Law of Supply and Demand. Show your worth then increase your value by being a commodity and not a surplus. It pays to disagree with her or say no to her wants.

4. Don’t use confessions pages as an outlet. Tell her and see where the cards fall.

Speaking out of experience. I have been friendzoned before, A LOT. You still have the chance, so take it. For me, its a different situation now. So good luck and Godspeed gentlemen, may the best man win!